My mom was in their hospice for almost two years, but then got so much better she no longer needed them. Look here for more on this important topic: interviews and podcasts with today’s leaders in palliative and end-of-life care…, Journal of Supportive Oncology, [Support Oncol 2008;6:322]. Continued 4. And the data supports it as well. If you feel like chemo isn’t working for you, you might have other options. Also not sure what your history is with radiation. This would suggest an increased use of chemotherapy near the end of life, which was identified in this study. The hospice is so caring and helpful. Please consult your healthcare provider with any questions or concerns you may have regarding your condition. A study by Murillo and Koeller in The Oncologist [2006; 11:1095–1099] looked at chemotherapy given near the end of life to advanced non-small cell lung cancer (NSCLC) patients treated in the community oncology setting. ... Join the Healthcare Professionals Network to read more pieces like this. For my mother in law last year and then for my dear mom this year. -talk to the radiotologist directly Forty % of patients were >69 years of age and 35% had an ECOG PS of ≥2. You may need to be more explicit in voicing your concerns to your oncologist and staff. It is a conversation that alters the doctor/patient relationship, an acknowledgement by the doctor that, despite all the advances of modern medicine, “I can do nothing more to extend your life.” I didn’t say that chemo isn’t effective in most cases of cancer, this ONCOLOGIST says it. Below, you can see some important questions you should ask your oncologist about chemotherapy. Sorry don't remember does your sister have a J-tube yet? -there are dose levels for chemo, have you discussed low dose option. Aftercare - Dec 2019: Oncologist says it's "my option" if I want to get more chemo "just in case" it helps a prevent recurrence. Don't think that your oncologist doesn't want you to ask them something. Posted on June 24, 2016 by bookjunkie. But the opener must be followed by a main course: clinicians must have another talk with patients to explain the details of hospice and to fully articulate and flesh out what end-of-life care entails. However, he can offer NO data on if more chemo will help or not. However, the oncologist will not entertain afatinib as she says side effects are significantly more severe than chemo, also tagrisso not approved in Ireland. The doctor won't like it but ask: Please feel free to PM me if you have any questions about our experience with hospice. The answer may revolve around blood markers with strange names, but there's no … Use of this online service is subject to the disclaimer and the terms and conditions. bawa. Chemotherapy was given within 1 month and 2 weeks of death to 43% and 20% of patients, respectively. Every Oncologist knows this, ... (which indicates no chemo needed) but because my tumor was 1.8 cm my ONC is advising chemo. The dilemma is increasing and the oncologist from Stanford has refused chemo for my sister, 33, with EC stage four. As you can see on this board some doctors are doing all chemo stage 4, some all radiation, some a mix. There are also some links to the NIH and clinical trials. You may have many, some, few, or none, and each of them can happen to differing degrees. If the cancer stays as it is he does not give you more ( poison). They are ready and able to help now. And a study presented at the most recent meeting of the American Society of Clinical Oncology showed for the first time that a chemotherapy-free … It is a conversation that alters the doctor/patient relationship, an acknowledgement by the doctor that, despite all the advances of modern medicine, “I can do nothing more to extend your life.” However, according to ongoing research, this difficult conversation is not being had enough, and patients, clinging to false hope, are being given chemotherapy when it should have been discontinued in favor of palliative care. However, the ‘hospice’ word is still a word used tentatively among oncologists. What the doctor is saying is the doctor won't continue chemo. -Ask them, then where/who else should we go immediately to continue treatment options. So many folks wait till the very end to bring hospice in. As a conversation starter, such a change may be useful. Patients received a mean of 6.1 cycles of chemotherapy. ... My oncologist says it’s a very natural feeling that all her patients go through. But so is honesty, given out in the proper doses on a patient-by-patient basis. questions below, actually demand it. According to the National Institute of Health, around 1,658,370 new cases will be diagnosed and 589,430 people will die from cancer in 2015. If changing the name to a more inclusive term, such as hospice home nursing program, makes it easier to introduce the topic, I am in favor of such a modification. Tenacity and positivity in the face of desperate clinical scenarios are vital qualities in an oncologist treating people with cancer. It has disappointed my sister who was keen to go ahead with it...alas! Now we really do not know where to go from here...whether to take a second opinion, what shall we do? Case in point, in an editorial in the Journal of Supportive Oncology, [Support Oncol 2008;6:322] Paul R. Helft, MD, Associate Professor of Medicine at the Indiana University School of Medicine, wrote: “In practice, I almost never use the naked word hospice, especially when I first introduce it. All of that sounds terrifying, but there’s no guarantee you’ll get all of these side effects. Then this year we new it was time to call them again, and they were with my mom and all of us till her last breath. visit. The hospice is: VITAS Innovative Hospice care of california 1-866-418-4827 I'm an oncologist who got breast cancer. Do not use this information to diagnose or treat a health problem or disease without consulting with a qualified healthcare provider. Mum has been to see the oncologist and Shes pleased with mum (without the chemo in her she has strength and doesn't look 'grey') They don't think its right that they should pump mum with more chemo and destroy her quality of life (in a bed and weak) so they are letting her live her 'alright' quality of life while she's well enough to go out. What do you do when your oncologist says, “You are completely done with treatment, and I no longer need to see you anymore”? I don't post much to this board, but do read often. © 2021 MJH Life Sciences™ and Cancer Network. As a medial culture, we shy away from mortality issues. Just my opinion, If fighting is what your sister really wants to do at this point, it should be the patient's decision to continue chemo. I also found bringing in another person with the doctors from family or friends at these conversations is really helpful. All rights reserved. They have reached the point of no return and should all retire before they are thrown in jail for deliberately provoking more cancer in their patients. Hi All. As the saying goes, “Hindsight is 20/20.” When I finished chemo in February 2011, I knew a lot more than when I walked in for my first infusion 4 months earlier. Some people imagine a place where you go to die; others believe it to be the last step, the final stage, the end. I replied to your post titled "Caregiver dilemma-to cry or not to cry" about Hospice for your dear sister. Further exacerbating the initiation of honest discussion about end-of-life issues is a semantic dilemma, choosing the proper terms and language oftentimes becomes an emotional chess game of avoidance. Given how much chemo batters your body around and I was stage 1 with no nodes involved I was more than comfortable with her recommendation. Second-line therapy was given to 56% of patients; 26% of patients received third-line therapy, while 10% received fourth-line therapy and 5% received fifth-line therapy or greater. So hormone therapy only for me. Your sister is always free to have a second opinion, but it can only help her and all of you to have hospice on board now. This just happened to me. Studies also suggest that the struggle to engage in honest, goal-oriented conversation when curative or maintenance therapy is no longer clinically feasible, is partly driven by the patient’s wish to ‘try anything at all’ in order to extend life. Im happy to talk with you any time. First-line chemotherapy included combination therapy in 84% of patients. This word conjures various images in patients’ minds, many of them inaccurate. Choosing the more time option does run the risk of ruining the quality of life during any remaining time, and this is an aspect I've had many internal battles with. Prayers for your sister and all of you, However, all practitioners who refer many patients to hospice do so in the belief that these programs provide the best, highest quality, and most efficient and effective means of supporting the palliative and end-of-life needs for dying patients.”, In a corresponding commentary to Dr. Helft’s editorial, Lidia Schapira, MD, Assistant Professor, Department of Medicine, Harvard Medical School, said, “Hospice by any other name remains a venue for delivery of nursing and social services for dying patients. I was diagnosed with breast cancer six years ago when I was 32 years old. Veterinary cancer specialists help pet families make hard decisions every day. My oncologist always says the body needs to rest from chemotherapy so he only does a few cycles then stops to assess and only continues if needed. Fox News and many others have published the news about this undesirable effect of helping to create cancer stem cells—cells researchers say are particularly adept at generating new tumors and are especially resistant to treatment. © 2021 MJH Life Sciences and Cancer Network. -to talk with the doctor's boss/head Just my opinion, Although this point is partially based in fact, science has come leaps and bounds since those first experiments using mustard gas, or mustard nitrogen, to treat lymphoma back in the WWII era. If fighting is what your sister really wants to do at this point, it should be the patient's decision to continue chemo. Dr. Moss confirms this and claims that the greatest breakthrough in the objective study of chemotherapy came from a biostatistician at the University of Heidelberg, Dr. Ulrich Abel. Just go out and do whatever you want for the rest of your life, however long or short it … Im looking for some thoughts and help following our latest onc. There is currently no evidence to suggest a benefit to delaying chemo in light of Covid-19 risks, the group says, although there may be cases in which … Your heart is breaking and it can be hard to keep a clear head, and nice to have another listening as well. “I don’t want to think about cancer all the time.” You’re much more than a patient. They also have a website. From Rons description of his symptoms the onc. Copyright 2000-2019 © Cancer Survivors Network. This may be routine to them, but it isn't to you. You want an explanation of what he bases his conclusion on. Although we did use them for mom before this year. The content on this site is for informational purposes only. Cancer is the second leading cause of death in the United States. She was ready to give chemo ten days back and today even when her vitals were matching the standards of chemo she decided not to go ahead with chemo. The result is a delay in beneficial treatment opportunities such as hospice care, generally regarded as the gold standard when death is imminent. There are many other hospice in the bay area, but I truly believe that this is one of the best, in my opinion, the Best!. My oncologist recommended NOT having chemo given the less than 1% difference it made to survival rate. Chemotherapy is among the treatment options available. When my husband learned he had advanced lung cancer, he didn’t even want to speak to an oncologist about chemotherapy.He saw no point in treatment that could not cure him and might make him feel worse. Cancer Survivors Network - Comments for "THE ONCOLOGIST SAYS NO MORE CHEMO" In reply to THE ONCOLOGIST SAYS NO MORE CHEMO. If anyone in my family ever needs hospice again, they will be the ones I call. “Chemo is not killing any more cancer cells than are being killed by hormone therapy,” says Norton. It's a leap of faith. I'm not familiar with Sanford, but first you might want to try where you are. Talking about death is not easy. What's more, they want you to ask everything you want and need to know because that way they can help you start chemo and learn a lot about it. Understandably, oncologists are reluctant to tell patients that there is no longer any benefit for them to continue chemotherapy. Also, you might want to take a look at an article on our new site from the Mayo Clinic it may give you some helpful background - http://www.esophagealcancerfighters.com/?page_id=41 "When enough is enough - Stoping Cancer Treatment when the time is right" - it really talks about the process of deciding on treatment and what to do if you want to stop treatment and your doctor doesn't or if you want to continue treatment and your doctor doesn't. The hardest decision for me is to recommend no treatment at all. Your at a tough roller-coaster point in stage IV and chemo. Good luck - 33 is so young my heart breaks for your sister and your entire family. Even though you’re happy to leave chemo side effects behind, you strangely felt safe and cocooned while undergoing treatment. Maybe you have read it already, but in case you missed it, I want you to know about a wonderful hospice in your area. Unfortunately, oncologist does not take any alternative opinions from me as my Mum’s advocate. Dr. Braverman says that there is no solid tumor incurable in 1976 that is curable today. We used VITAS in Pittsburgh and they were amazing as well. Claims That Chemo Is "Poison" A moderate percentage of no-chemo proponents used the chemo-is-mustard-gas rationale for refusal. Prior to the visit on Monday Ron had 8000ccs of fluid removed from his abdomen. After you’ve been diagnosed with breast cancer, your oncologist may recommend many different treatments. The results are telling: The researchers reported data from 10 community practices including 417 patients treated for advanced NSCLC in 2000–2003. The dilemma is increasing and the oncologist from Stanford has refused chemo for my sister, 33, with EC stage four. The mean age was 67 years (median, 62 years) and 54% were male. The patient wants their physician to deliver positive news and, by turns, the physician wants to delay what might be a hope-crushing discussion of prognosis. Understandably, oncologists are reluctant to tell patients that there is no longer any benefit for them to continue chemotherapy. I had no idea about the varied and far-reaching support they offer. To some, hospice also suggests giving up. Not all cancers respond to these therapies, so they may not be a good fit for you. Read more No More Chemo: Doctors Say It’s Not So Far-Fetched. Lisha. No More Chemo. Posts: 40 Joined: Sep 2012 Sep 12, 2012 - 12:59 am. If not, patients remain at risk for overhearing the bad news from strangers.”. All rights reserved. Hes not been eating well, feels weak and is complaining of an intermittent pain in his right hip. The reason for switching to Taxol is my tumor only shrank from 5.5 cm to 4.2 cm after chemo… THE ONCOLOGIST SAYS NO MORE CHEMO. So when your oncologist says it’s “up to you” whether or not to undergo more treatment for cancer, say no. Instead, the study published online Thursday, in the medical journal JAMA Oncology, focuses on chemotherapy given to people with solid tumors … It is not a substitute for professional medical advice. Oncologist says “No More Chemo” Discussion Board › Forums › Chemotherapy & More › Oncologist says “No More Chemo” This topic has 4 replies, 3 voices, and was last updated 9 years, 10 months ago by highsmith . However he wrote to him and for a while he made more effort when I saw him. You’re a person with a full life. Our family has used them for two family members. Mel O'Neill from Penketh was diagnosed with breast cancer a decade ago and writes a regular blog for the Warrington Guardian “Your oncologist says … For oncologists it is a dreaded and often inevitable outcome. Your at a tough roller-coaster point in stage IV and chemo. For me, the hardest part is not making such end-of-life decisions or discussing the pros and cons of treating a beloved pet for cancer. But if is intended to soften the blow, I am not so enthusiastic. Conclusion: The availability of new chemotherapeutic agents has caused a subsequent increase in the length of time patients are receiving chemotherapy with advanced NSCLC. While most conventional cancer treatments revolve around a mix of surgery, chemotherapy and radiation, some people question their efficacy — particularly chemotherapy. For patients receiving chemotherapy at the time of death, the mean line of therapy being given was second line. 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